
The target audience of The Art of Manliness is a man who seeks refinement, typically men in their 20’s.
My parents divorced, growing up and into adulthood, I yearned for a father figure. The Art of Manliness didn’t fill my desire for a father, but it did teach me the skills and lessons that I would’ve learned from a father.
Shaving
Before reading The Art of Manliness, I used a Gillette razor, usually with the four-blade cartridge, sometimes I slummed and used the three-blade cartridge. The three-blade cartridges sold for 5. This might not seem like a big expense, but it adds up. A year using a Gillette razor cost over $240.
One morning during a trip, a friend pulled out his safety razor and shaving soap. He lathered the soap in a bowl and proceeded to shave. I’d never seen a safety razor let alone one in use. It piqued my curiosity.
As I would learn from the The Art of Manliness, this is how men shaved for over a hundred years starting in the late 1880s.
I decided to take the plunge. I purchased a safety razor for about 35. That was over ten years ago, and I haven’t looked back. The cost of the blades? They’re about 10 cents apiece and typically last a week. I spend about $20 a year on shaving supplies.
Nuggets of Wisdom
Cleanliness keeps your mind clear and your life organized. If your house is a total disaster, your thinking is going to feel similarly disorganized.
We often gain a sense of prideful satisfaction by comparing our strengths to someone else’s weaknesses. In doing so, we lose sight of the ways we need to improve ourselves.
Other Topics
- Getting a haircut from a barber who uses a straight razor
- How to change a tire
- Being a friend
- Being a father
- Giving a speech
- Being a virtuous man
The authors have a podcast and a blog. Both are worth checking out.
Chuck Conway is a father who believes the books we read and patterns we question can reshape not just our lives, but the generations that follow. He lives in California with his wife, daughter, and cat Mango, writing about the ideas that impact him. Not expert advice, just observations from someone doing the work. Connect with him on Substack or YouTube.